{"id":78867,"date":"2026-08-31T06:16:12","date_gmt":"2026-08-31T10:16:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stateofthenation.info\/?p=78867"},"modified":"2026-08-31T06:16:12","modified_gmt":"2026-08-31T10:16:12","slug":"sex-therapist-ruth-westheimer-this-is-the-german-jewish-little-old-lady-who-used-to-tell-americans-how-to-have","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stateofthenation.info\/?p=78867","title":{"rendered":"<h3><b>&#8216;Sex Therapist&#8217; Ruth Westheimer: This is the German-Jewish &#8220;little old lady&#8221; who used to tell Americans how to have&#8230;&#8230;.<\/b><\/h3>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<h1><strong>&#8230;SEX.<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78868\" src=\"http:\/\/stateofthenation.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-31-at-6.02.13-AM.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"624\" height=\"628\" srcset=\"https:\/\/stateofthenation.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-31-at-6.02.13-AM.png 624w, https:\/\/stateofthenation.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-31-at-6.02.13-AM-298x300.png 298w, https:\/\/stateofthenation.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Screenshot-2026-08-31-at-6.02.13-AM-150x150.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 624px) 100vw, 624px\" \/><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<p id=\"mwASU\">Westheimer joined the\u00a0<a id=\"mwASY\" title=\"Haganah\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Haganah\" rel=\"mw:WikiLink\">Haganah<\/a>\u00a0Jewish\u00a0<a id=\"mwASc\" class=\"mw-redirect\" title=\"Zionist\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Zionist\" rel=\"mw:WikiLink\">Zionist<\/a>\u00a0underground paramilitary organization (later, the\u00a0<a id=\"mwASg\" title=\"Israel Defense Forces\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Israel_Defense_Forces\" rel=\"mw:WikiLink\">Israel Defense Forces<\/a>) in Jerusalem.<sup id=\"cite_ref-auto18_29-0\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;auto18&quot;},&quot;body&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;mw-reference-text-cite_note-auto18-29&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwASk\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-auto18-29\"><span id=\"mwASo\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwASs\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>29<span id=\"mwASw\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup><sup id=\"cite_ref-auto6_28-1\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;auto6&quot;},&quot;body&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;mw-reference-text-cite_note-auto6-28&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwAS0\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-auto6-28\"><span id=\"mwAS4\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwAS8\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>28<span id=\"mwATA\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup><sup id=\"cite_ref-auto11_30-0\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;auto11&quot;},&quot;body&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;mw-reference-text-cite_note-auto11-30&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwATE\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-auto11-30\"><span id=\"mwATI\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwATM\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>30<span id=\"mwATQ\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup>\u00a0Because of her diminutive height of\u00a0<span id=\"mwATU\" data-mw=\"{&quot;parts&quot;:[{&quot;template&quot;:{&quot;target&quot;:{&quot;wt&quot;:&quot;convert&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;.\/Template:Convert&quot;},&quot;params&quot;:{&quot;1&quot;:{&quot;wt&quot;:&quot;4&quot;},&quot;2&quot;:{&quot;wt&quot;:&quot;ft&quot;},&quot;3&quot;:{&quot;wt&quot;:&quot;7&quot;},&quot;4&quot;:{&quot;wt&quot;:&quot;in&quot;},&quot;5&quot;:{&quot;wt&quot;:&quot;cm&quot;}},&quot;i&quot;:0}}]}\">4<\/span>\u00a0feet 7\u00a0inches (140\u00a0cm), she was trained as a\u00a0<a id=\"mwATY\" title=\"Reconnaissance\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Reconnaissance\" rel=\"mw:WikiLink\">scout<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a id=\"mwATc\" title=\"Sniper\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Sniper\" rel=\"mw:WikiLink\">sniper<\/a>.<sup id=\"cite_ref-NYT_27-1\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;NYT&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwATg\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-NYT-27\"><span id=\"mwATk\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwATo\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>27<span id=\"mwATs\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup><sup id=\"cite_ref-auto11_30-1\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;auto11&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwATw\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-auto11-30\"><span id=\"mwAT0\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwAT4\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>30<span id=\"mwAT8\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup><sup id=\"cite_ref-snopes-sniper_31-0\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;snopes-sniper&quot;},&quot;body&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;mw-reference-text-cite_note-snopes-sniper-31&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwAUA\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-snopes-sniper-31\"><span id=\"mwAUE\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwAUI\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>31<span id=\"mwAUM\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup>\u00a0Of this experience, she said, &#8220;I never killed anybody, but I know how to throw\u00a0<a id=\"mwAUQ\" class=\"mw-redirect\" title=\"Hand grenades\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Hand_grenades\" rel=\"mw:WikiLink\">hand grenades<\/a>\u00a0and shoot.&#8221;<sup id=\"cite_ref-2013_usatoday_32-0\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;2013_usatoday&quot;},&quot;body&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;mw-reference-text-cite_note-2013_usatoday-32&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwAUU\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-2013_usatoday-32\"><span id=\"mwAUY\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwAUc\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>32<span id=\"mwAUg\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup>\u00a0She became an ace sniper, and learned to assemble a rifle in the dark.<sup id=\"cite_ref-NYT_27-2\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;NYT&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwAUk\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-NYT-27\"><span id=\"mwAUo\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwAUs\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>27<span id=\"mwAUw\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup><sup id=\"cite_ref-auto9_14-2\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;auto9&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwAU0\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-auto9-14\"><span id=\"mwAU4\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwAU8\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>14<span id=\"mwAVA\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup>\u00a0When she was 90 years old, she demonstrated that she was still able to put together a\u00a0<a id=\"mwAVE\" class=\"mw-redirect\" title=\"Sten gun\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Sten_gun\" rel=\"mw:WikiLink\">Sten gun<\/a>\u00a0with her eyes closed.<sup id=\"cite_ref-33\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{},&quot;body&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;mw-reference-text-cite_note-33&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwAVI\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-33\"><span id=\"mwAVM\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwAVQ\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>33<span id=\"mwAVU\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup><\/p>\n<p>In 1948, on her 20th birthday, Westheimer was seriously wounded in action by an exploding\u00a0<a id=\"mwAVc\" title=\"Shell (projectile)\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Shell_(projectile)\" rel=\"mw:WikiLink\">shell<\/a>\u00a0during a\u00a0<a id=\"mwAVg\" class=\"mw-redirect\" title=\"Mortar fire\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Mortar_fire\" rel=\"mw:WikiLink\">mortar fire<\/a>\u00a0attack on Jerusalem during the\u00a0<a id=\"mwAVk\" title=\"1948 Palestine war\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/1948_Palestine_war\" rel=\"mw:WikiLink\">1948 Palestine war<\/a>; the explosion killed two girls who were right next to her.<sup id=\"cite_ref-34\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{},&quot;body&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;mw-reference-text-cite_note-34&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwAVo\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-34\"><span id=\"mwAVs\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwAVw\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>34<span id=\"mwAV0\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup><sup id=\"cite_ref-auto11_30-2\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;auto11&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwAV4\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-auto11-30\"><span id=\"mwAV8\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwAWA\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>30<span id=\"mwAWE\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup><sup id=\"cite_ref-auto21_26-3\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;auto21&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwAWI\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-auto21-26\"><span id=\"mwAWM\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwAWQ\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>26<span id=\"mwAWU\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup>\u00a0Temporarily paralyzed and with two injured feet (one missing a top portion), she spent months in a recuperative ward before walking again.<sup id=\"cite_ref-35\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{},&quot;body&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;mw-reference-text-cite_note-35&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwAWY\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-35\"><span id=\"mwAWc\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwAWg\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>35<span id=\"mwAWk\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup><sup id=\"cite_ref-GAH_36-0\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;GAH&quot;},&quot;body&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;mw-reference-text-cite_note-GAH-36&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwAWo\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-GAH-36\"><span id=\"mwAWs\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwAWw\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>36<span id=\"mwAW0\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup><sup id=\"cite_ref-NatGeo_37-0\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;NatGeo&quot;},&quot;body&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;mw-reference-text-cite_note-NatGeo-37&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwAW4\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-NatGeo-37\"><span id=\"mwAW8\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwAXA\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>37<span id=\"mwAXE\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup>\u00a0In 2018 she said that she still visited Israel every year, and felt that it was her real home, and the following year said that she was and is a Zionist.<sup id=\"cite_ref-auto21_26-4\" class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;auto21&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwAXI\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-auto21-26\"><span id=\"mwAXM\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwAXQ\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>26<span id=\"mwAXU\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup><sup class=\"mw-ref reference\" data-mw=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ref&quot;,&quot;attrs&quot;:{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;auto20&quot;},&quot;body&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;mw-reference-text-cite_note-auto20-38&quot;}}\"><a id=\"mwAXY\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ruth_Westheimer#cite_note-auto20-38\"><span id=\"mwAXc\" class=\"mw-reflink-text\"><span id=\"mwAXg\" class=\"cite-bracket\">[<\/span>38<span id=\"mwAXk\" class=\"cite-bracket\">]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/sup><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p 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